{"id":107,"date":"2024-11-23T03:04:04","date_gmt":"2024-11-22T23:04:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.rizvan.net\/?p=107"},"modified":"2024-11-23T22:47:30","modified_gmt":"2024-11-23T18:47:30","slug":"tekebbur-ii-hiss%c9%99","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rizvan.net\/?p=107","title":{"rendered":"T\u018fK\u018fBB\u00dcR – II hiss\u0259 \ud83d\udd08"},"content":{"rendered":"
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T\u018fK\u018fBB\u00dcR, N\u0130FR\u018fT\u018f S\u018fB\u018fB OLUR<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130nsan\u0131n daxili x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n biri d\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn z\u0259ruri olan “\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sev\u0259rliyidir.” Bu hiss, daha d\u0259qiq des\u0259k, x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t onun h\u0259yata v\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa olan meyl v\u0259 ist\u0259yind\u0259n meydana g\u0259lir. Onun vasit\u0259si il\u0259 bir \u00e7ox m\u00fcsb\u0259t x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri daha da g\u00fccl\u0259ndirm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olsa da, ifrata vard\u0131qda bir \u00e7ox xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hallara s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/p>\n

\u018fxlaqi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 vurdu\u011fu ilk z\u0259rb\u0259 insan\u0131n h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sevm\u0259si v\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 laqeyd olmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsan\u0131n m\u0259hz bu xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259ti onu h\u0259qiq\u0259ti q\u0259bul etm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 etiraf etm\u0259y\u0259 mane olur.<\/p>\n

Professor Robinson deyir: “D\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 he\u00e7 bir z\u0259hm\u0259ti olmadan \u00f6z fikir v\u0259 \u0259qid\u0259l\u0259rimizi d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259li oluruq. Lakin birisi biz\u0259 s\u0259hv\u0259 yol verdiyimizi bildirdikd\u0259, d\u0259rhal bunu t\u00f6hm\u0259t kimi q\u0259bul edir v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc m\u00fcdafi\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. Biz \u00e7ox asanl\u0131qla h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir fikri q\u0259bul edirik. Birisi onu bizd\u0259n almaq ist\u0259dikd\u0259 is\u0259 d\u0259lic\u0259sin\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc m\u00fcdafi\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r\u0131q. Lakin bel\u0259 bir \u0259ks\u00fcl-\u0259m\u0259l\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olan h\u0259min fikir v\u0259 ya \u0259qid\u0259y\u0259 olan ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan deyil, bizi ciddi t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259n xudp\u0259s\u0259ndlik v\u0259 ifrat sur\u0259td\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sev\u0259rlikd\u0259n ir\u0259li g\u0259lir. \u018fg\u0259r birisi biz\u0259: “Saat\u0131n geri qal\u0131r v\u0259 ma\u015f\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ox k\u00f6hn\u0259dir” \u2013 dey\u0259rs\u0259, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 “Mars v\u0259 q\u0259dim Misir m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259ti bar\u0259d\u0259 yiy\u0259l\u0259ndiyiniz m\u0259lumatlar” s\u0259hvdir \u2013 deyildiyi zaman g\u00f6st\u0259rdiyimiz \u0259ks\u00fcl-\u0259m\u0259li g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259k!”<\/p>\n

\u0130nsan\u0131n b\u0259db\u0259xt\u00e7iliyin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olan \u0259n ba\u015fl\u0131ca amill\u0259rd\u0259n birid\u0259 onun “xudp\u0259s\u0259nd” v\u0259 “t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcrl\u00fc” olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

T\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcrl\u00fck kimi insan\u0131n nifr\u0259t etdiyi ikinci bir x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t yoxdur. Bunun n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259t v\u0259 s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t \u00f6z yerini \u0259dav\u0259t v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n\u00e7iliy\u0259 ver\u0259r\u0259k ham\u0131n\u0131n nifr\u0259tin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur. \u0130nsan ba\u015fqalar\u0131ndan s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t g\u00f6zl\u0259diyi kimi, onlara qar\u015f\u0131 da son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 s\u0259mimi v\u0259 mehriban olmal\u0131 v\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rin pozulmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olan h\u0259r bir soyuq m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259n uzaq olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259mimi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin\u0259 etinas\u0131zl\u0131q etm\u0259k insan\u0131n eyni \u0259ks\u00fcl-\u0259m\u0259l il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmas\u0131na v\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin\u0259 x\u0259l\u0259l g\u0259lm\u0259sin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/p>\n

C\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin h\u00fcdudlar\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259ndir v\u0259 h\u0259r bir \u015f\u0259xs ba\u015fqalar\u0131ndan \u00f6z l\u0259yaq\u0259ti s\u0259viyy\u0259sind\u0259 s\u0259mimi m\u00fcnasib\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Xudp\u0259s\u0259ndlik \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259sind\u0259 \u0259sir olub q\u00fcrur v\u0259 t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcrl\u00fcy\u00fcn qurban\u0131na \u00e7evril\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r is\u0259 yaln\u0131z \u00f6zl\u0259rini fikirl\u0259\u015fib n\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alar, n\u0259 d\u0259 onlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00fcz\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 riay\u0259t ed\u0259rl\u0259r. Onlar n\u0259yin bahas\u0131na olursa-olsun \u015fan-\u015f\u00f6hr\u0259t \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 can atar v\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini ham\u0131dan \u00fcst\u00fcn tutma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015farlar. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 camaatla h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsin ist\u0259k v\u0259 arzular\u0131 aras\u0131nda b\u00f6y\u00fck bir ziddiyy\u0259t meydana g\u0259lir. C\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fczvl\u0259rinin g\u00f6st\u0259rdikl\u0259ri \u0259ks\u00fcl-\u0259m\u0259l v\u0259 b\u0259sl\u0259dikl\u0259ri nifr\u0259t onlar\u0131n narahat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. G\u00f6zl\u0259dikl\u0259rinin tam \u0259ksini m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 etdikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn iztirab v\u0259 q\u0259z\u0259bl\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 d\u00f6zm\u0259li olurlar.<\/p>\n

T\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcrl\u00fcy\u00fcn s\u0259b\u0259b oldu\u011fu \u015feyl\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 b\u0259dbinlikdir. Onlar daim z\u0259nn v\u0259 g\u00fcmana qap\u0131laraq ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n onlar bar\u0259d\u0259 pis fikird\u0259 oldu\u011funu t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr ed\u0259rl\u0259r. Q\u00fcrur v\u0259 etinas\u0131zl\u0131qdan \u0259l \u00e7\u0259km\u0259zl\u0259r v\u0259 ixtiyars\u0131z olaraq m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r bar\u0259d\u0259 pis fikr\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb yaranm\u0131\u015f ilk f\u00fcrs\u0259td\u0259 onlardan intiqam alma\u011fa can atarlar. Daxill\u0259rind\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n t\u00fc\u011fyan yatmay\u0131nca n\u0259 rahatl\u0131q, n\u0259 d\u0259 asayi\u015f bil\u0259rl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanda t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcrl\u00fck v\u0259 xudp\u0259s\u0259ndlik hissl\u0259rinin yaranmas\u0131 onun bir n\u00f6v psixoloji x\u0259st\u0259liy\u0259 d\u00fc\u00e7ar olmas\u0131ndan x\u0259b\u0259r verir. X\u0259st\u0259lik kimi q\u0259l\u0259m\u0259 veril\u0259n bu x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t sonralar t\u0259dricl\u0259 “eqoistliy\u0259” \u00e7evrilir. Bu is\u0259 ciddi nigaran\u00e7\u0131l\u0131qlara v\u0259 bir \u00e7ox cinay\u0259tl\u0259rin ba\u015f verm\u0259sin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/p>\n

N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 insan b\u00f6y\u00fck b\u0259db\u0259xt\u00e7ilikl\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fir. Tarix\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259r sald\u0131qda bunun \u015fahidi oluruq ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259 pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xan v\u0259 haqq\u0131 q\u0259bul etm\u0259kd\u0259n boyun qa\u00e7\u0131ran \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 raz\u0131 v\u0259 t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcrl\u00fc olmu\u015flar. \u018fsrl\u0259r boyu k\u00fctl\u0259vi q\u0131r\u011f\u0131nlar olmu\u015f v\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n m\u00fcharib\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 minl\u0259rl\u0259 g\u00fcnahs\u0131z insan\u0131n qan\u0131 ax\u0131d\u0131lm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. B\u0259\u015f\u0259riyy\u0259ti ciddi t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259n bu v\u0259h\u015filikl\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259hz insanlar\u0131n q\u00fcrur v\u0259 t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcrl\u00fcy\u00fc s\u0259b\u0259b olmu\u015fdur.<\/p>\n

\u018fxlaqi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rd\u0259n b\u0259hr\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259n ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 olunan u\u015faqlar c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259y\u0259 nail olmurlar. Onlar\u0131n bir \u00e7oxu t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcrl\u00fcy\u0259 d\u00fc\u00e7ar olur v\u0259 bu yolla ail\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259ri \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131qlar\u0131 aradan qald\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Bel\u0259 bir x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t\u0259 yiy\u0259l\u0259n\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r \u00f6z \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini ba\u015fqalar\u0131ndan qat-qat \u00fcst\u00fcn tutur v\u0259 q\u00fcrur hissi il\u0259 \u00f6z \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fckl\u0259rini n\u00fcmayi\u015f etdirirl\u0259r. H\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n y\u00fcks\u0259k \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t\u0259 malik olan \u015f\u0259xs he\u00e7 vaxt \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc uca tutma\u011fa v\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00f6y\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 ehtiyac duymur. \u00c7\u00fcnki o bilir ki, lov\u011fal\u0131q v\u0259 \u00f6y\u00fcnm\u0259k he\u00e7 d\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck dem\u0259k deyildir, q\u00fcrur v\u0259 t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcrl\u00fck h\u0259l\u0259 bu vaxtad\u0259k he\u00e7 bir k\u0259s\u0259 \u015f\u0259r\u0259f n\u0259sib etm\u0259mi\u015fdir.<\/p>\n

Aliml\u0259rd\u0259n biri deyir: “Psixoloji sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 qorumaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ist\u0259k v\u0259 arzular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 azald\u0131b ba\u015fqalar\u0131ndan az \u015fey g\u00f6zl\u0259yin v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc q\u0259lbinizin t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n xilas edin. Q\u00fcrur v\u0259 xudp\u0259r\u0259stlikd\u0259n uzaq olun!”<\/p>\n

Kitab\u0131n ad\u0131:\u00a0\u018fxlaqi v\u0259 psixoloji \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131qlar\u0131n ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131
\n<\/strong>T\u0259rc\u00fcm\u0259 ed\u0259n:\u00a0\u0130. \u018fhm\u0259dov
\n<\/strong>S\u0259sl\u0259ndirdi: Turan\u0259 Allahverdiyeva
\n<\/strong><\/p>\n

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394T\u018fK\u018fBB\u00dcR, N\u0130FR\u018fT\u018f S\u018fB\u018fB OLUR \u0130nsan\u0131n daxili x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n biri d\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn z\u0259ruri olan “\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sev\u0259rliyidir.” Bu hiss, daha d\u0259qiq des\u0259k, x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t onun h\u0259yata v\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa olan meyl v\u0259 ist\u0259yind\u0259n meydana g\u0259lir. Onun vasit\u0259si il\u0259 bir \u00e7ox m\u00fcsb\u0259t x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri daha da g\u00fccl\u0259ndirm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olsa da, ifrata vard\u0131qda bir \u00e7ox xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hallara s\u0259b\u0259b olur. \u018fxlaqi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 vurdu\u011fu […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[21],"class_list":["post-107","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-axlaq","tag-dini-tlimlr"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rizvan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rizvan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rizvan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rizvan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rizvan.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=107"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.rizvan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":156,"href":"https:\/\/www.rizvan.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107\/revisions\/156"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rizvan.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=107"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rizvan.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=107"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rizvan.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=107"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}